Yesterday my stbx and lawyer sent their response to my purposed divorce settlement. They basically disagreed with everything. So, we are going to trial per my lawyer. But one of the main things is my husband wants me to buy him out of the house. Which in my purposal I was giving him his retirement which is the same value as the house. They are saying my retirement is equal to his. I work for the State of IL. I was very upset thinking I may not be able to afford the house. I told my kids to prepare them for a possible move. My daughter got so upset that she went to her Dad's apartment and told him off. Then later on last night I got very drunk crying by myself. My son came out of his bedroom to go to the bathroom and I proceeded to tell him that the reason his Dad told me about the cheating was because I needed tested for a STD. I didn't want the kids to know that part. Why did I tell him. I feel like shit right now.
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