Perhaps I am just down, but I cant seem to shake this feeling. Like I am never going to get this behind me. This has only been 6 months of hell with basically no progress. As far as I know stbx has not turned in necessary paperwork from court orders that were due last Monday & today. Funny how he blames everything on me. I ruined Christmas because I had him served mid Dec in front of our son. As if our son had any idea that the regularly dressed lady at the door was giving him divorce papers. Any attempt at a discussion is met with his belittling me saying I am incapable of having a discussion without sarcasm. I find this completely humorous as he uses this same line every time to simply avoid the conversation completely. He has gotten real good at walking away. Pathetic actions from a pathetic man. He cant even have a conversation about possibility of college visits for our child. I need this to be done. If we were living apart, perhaps it wouldn't be so bad, but living in the same house is a killer. His new tactic as far as appointments etc is whoever writes it on the calendar first. He has no money yet plans to be away sat/sun. part of me says i should hire a private detective. he doesn't care what this is doing to the kids, blames it on me. Also, says no need to tell kids we are selling the house, it is a nobrainer. really? i am sure i will not survive this!
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