I've been married for 30+ years. 17 years ago, my husband became impotent. Because I love him, I put aside the sexual side of my life. He declined any form of affection - hugs, eye contact, affectionate words... But I loved him. We have been compatible and truly enjoy day to day life. He was recently downsized and became clinically depressed. After much confusion, I found that he was spending 8 hours a day watching porn. In case you are wondering, I am 5'10" tall and weigh 128 pounds. I go to the gym each morning for over an hour. I have a job that supports our family and make over twice what he made. I have not said one negative word. Any thoughts?
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