I was so close to my mother in law. She knew all the pain I was going through not receiving any attention or feeling loved and cared about. She really loved me too. But when I go back home to visit my sons(all grown), sometimes she will call their house and ask if she can come over, and I'm so uncomfortable. I still love her, but it's like no one mentions HIM, or the DIVORCE, it's just light chit chat and it's so hard. I guess I want her on my side, and I don't think that happened, even though she would listen to me whenever I was sad and she couldn't understand his behavior either. How do I handle this? If she asks me questions about my job, etc, I kind of feel like she's spying.
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