well I have told you folks the x has been coming around bringing veggies from his garden.. I told him how much the girls love green beans so he told me to come on up and pick some if we wanted more..now this is the first time he has even allowed me to return to the family home, so off to the garden I went this am.. I did not knock on the door..just took my basket and went out to the garden.. with in seconds he was out there chewing my ear off.. and offereing me a cold soda...stayed with me the whole time I picked beans...small talk mostly.. altho I was upset to hear that he is thinking of selling camp..cause he can't handle taking care of two places...this is the place he fought to keep, during the divorce .. he has always loved this place.. no, more obsessed with this place would be like it..and now he wants to sell it..he and his sons and all of us.. built this camp..but anyways..he was so nice today.. I don't get it..but the yard looked like hell the pool was green and the lawn looked like a field.. hadn't been mowed...I just don't know what to make of it...
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