I finally have been given a court date for my divorce. I was hoping it would be soon, but right now the earlist we can get in is 11/6/08. The courts are pretty booked. It was hard hearing the "date" that it would be legally over. I sent the stbx an email telling him that all his hopes and dreams are coming true. His birthday is on 11/3, so I told him to look at it as a belated birthday present. I am so sad and angry that he is getting everything he wanted, and I am giving up so much. At least i have my daughter, who right now wants nothing much to do with him. It tears me apart how much he has hurt her, but he just doesn't get it. Even though he is living with the OW and now also her daughter, he doesn't see my daughters viewpoint that he left us for another family. He told her he only left "me" for 1 person(the OW), because he was unhappy with me. Good to know that it is okay to destroy so many lives just because you are unhappy. Imagine if we all destroyed others everytime we were unhappy. Selfish B*****ds!!!!!!!!!!
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