Can any of you people give me any ideas on how to get through the loneliness, and the memories, I think those 2 things are what are the hardest things for me. I know I can always make new memories, but after being married for so long, making those kind of memories aren't an option for me. The loneliness part is I go to work everyday, and then I come home to an empty house, A house that my X and our children shared for 29 years together, until they all grew up and my x left. There are alot of things here in this house that reminds me of him and what we once had. The funny thing is, we remortgaged the house to help out our kids, and now my x left me with the mortgage payments, and the way the house stands right now, it needs alot of work done, before I could even think about selling it. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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