My stbx and his lawyer sent a response to my purposed settlement. They did a actuary on my pension from my current empolyer. It says that the current value of my pension is greater than my stbx's retirement account. In my purposed settlement I was giving him all of his retirement in exchange for his part of the house. Now I'm not sure what is going to happen. I'm not sure I can get a loan for his half of the house and my children reallllllly do not want to have to move. This is their home... the home they have had all their lives. This makes me sad...what a selfish man he is.
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