My H phoned me yesterday and wanted to know how much money we had in the savings. (We haven't separated it yet.) When I told him, he said he was looking at buying a house. I told him he should decide if separation is the route he is choosing to go with first. He disagreed! He thinks we should be able to work together to make money. He says he will be able to turn it around near future (it is up for sheriff sale). I wasn't even asked and I am concerned about finances down the road, as I only make 1/2 the money he does, which he has told our son on more than one occasion. He sounds genuine, but has the OW and is as distant as he can be. I am certain we are going to end up divorced! I am just interested in what people think about this. I am scared enough about providing for the future, let alone if our savings is used up, yet on the otherside of it, if I make some money I would be better set for the future. I guess my problem is that I have lost my trust in him! I do not want to be gullable and I am not really in the state of mind to make a big decision, as I am too busy struggling with my grief, pain, depression, ...the damn rollercoaster never ends!
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