Just want to start by saying I have found a wonderful contentment in my life without a man. Didn't think I ever would, but for the most part I am always feeling good.
A friend fixed me up with someone-I knew who he is-our kids grew up together but I never remember meeting him (we live in a small town).
Anyhow, we had a nice date, but no "sparks", which I guess is what I want if I'm going to spend time with a man. I am very busy with a ton of activities and friends, and I really don't need another friend.
He wants to go out again, but not sure if I want to. Am I crazy to think I deserve something different? I have only gone out on a few dates in the past 5 years-really the first 3 years I was in no shape to even think about it. Am I looking for something that I might never find?
I'm 53, not desperate to have a man but feel I'm kinda young to be alone for the rest of my life. Maybe not.
This whole dating thing is perplexing and nerve wracking. I'm trying to leave it up to God, like I do most things.
Anyway, sorry for the ramble :) Anyone have any thoughts/advice?
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