Hi group, I'm new here, just found this group. I've been married 30 years this coming Monday. We have one grown daughter, 2 grandsons that live 5 doors down. He has been cheating on me for at least 15 years that I know of, perhaps more and it's escalated to him being with hookers. I do believe he has a sex addiction, or sexual maladaptive behavior, therapists call it different names. I know he has as sickness that started years ago. He is the best father and husband other than this, we get along perfectly, enjoy the same things have a lot of fun together but it seems he can't control it. I am finally seeking a divorce and I will have to ambush him with papers when I file, he may sell or hide money. I also have cancer, 4 times survivor, I'm in remission but my cancer is not curable. I may have 5 years, not sure. I have no family other than my daughter. I'm afraid I may die alone so this keeps me thinking I should just suck it up and take him back again. I love more than anything but the cheating now has gotten to me. My future looks bleak. Money will not be the issue but being alone scares me. I can't cope now, how will it be when we're divorced? I see a therapist for me, not our marriage once a week but it's not helping even though I really like her. Thanks for listening.
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