My divorce is going to trial. The date is set for August 25th. I am nervous and have a knot in my stomach. I can not wait till this is over. The Rat Bastard STBX just refuses to settle out of court. He said that he afforded me the luxury of stayig home all my life and that it is time that I got off my ass and earned a living. He has offeres me 3 years of alimony and that is it. After 33 years of marriage!! He was angry when I turned his offer down. He truely believes that it is HIS money and that the courts will side with him. So far this judge has been fair in all her rulings. I hate confrontation, I can not wait till this is done and I am divorced and free of him!! I need everyone's good thoughts and positive vibes to go with me on Tuesday!!
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