Ex taking youngest to horse show tomorrow, for the weekend, and the soon to be wife is going along. The OW is nice to my girls and I am ok with her going. HOWEVER>>>> My daughter has been worried about something all week. She finally just said, Where is everyone going to sleep? That is what she has been worried about. She knows that It will not be acceptable to me IF he sleeps with OW and lets my daughter sleep in the other bed. THEY ARE NOT MARRIED! I don't care that she is living out there with him. My girls do not stay out there and they will not. That is not a good example to set. My girls are 20,18 and 16. They really need to see their father,in his underwear get into bed with a woman.. THAT MAKES ME ALMOST SICK!!! My ex will go ballistic if I say one word, and then may not take her..She will be so sad if she does not get to go!!! WHAT do you all think? Am I just being irrational again.... Any thoughts...?
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