I am so grateful to have found a board that other people can relate to what I"m going thru. I have been with my husband for 18 1/2 yrs. And he has decided that he'd rather spend the rest of his life with a MARRIED woman, who's not leaving her husband, then spend it with his wife. I am having such a difficult time going thru this. Yesterday was the day when he said that he definately positively wanted a divorce (we've been seperated 3 months) - I trusted him with so many things thru our lives, that this is a total nightmare to me. The OW was a good friend of mine, and they have become very vindictive towards me (it's her nature) and she has turned him into someone who can't speak for himself (she does all of that) and can make no decisions (also that is her department) and he pretty much sits in some rental home and waits for her to visit him. I am crushed that he has decided to be with such an evil person. How are people dealing with this? sometimes I think I'm going to lose my mind, and right now, I'm so sick of crying over and over while he is out having fun.
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