H and I started dating when I was 15 and married when I was 22. We\'ve been together for almost 23 yrs now. In Feb he left and come to find out he\'s been cheating since last July. He was my whole world and always possesive and controlling. So he\'s been living w/ \"her\" since Feb, I won\'t get into all the lies and deceipt but he\'s renovating a house to rent and possibly purchase for just himself. About a month ago he told me that he hopes I will eventually live there w/ him but wants to take it slow-however still living w/ her. He calls every day and sometimes visits during the week (I lost my job a few weeks ago). She freaks out if I call-so I don\'t call unless he specifically asks me to. He calls me. He\'ll kiss me, sometimes more. I\'m just very confused. When I ask him direct questions he either doesn\'t respond or says I\'ve already told you all this. Should I even bother? I just wish I could fast forward 6 mos from now. Do I just throw it all away? Can it even work out after what he\'s done?
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