My ex is my enabler although I do accept responsibility for the way I look as well. He wants to get back together again and although he means well when he tells me that I am beautiful as is and don't need to lose any weight... I can't help but to think that he wants me to remain fat so that I could not have any other options. Here is the thing, he is also morbidly obese and he tells me that he is willing to change, but I just don't see him wanting it like I do. I broke up with him for many reasons some petty and some not. But one of the main reasons is that I need positive people around me, I want people that respect the fact that I don't want to drop dead because of a heart attack and he doesn't get it. He laughs off my concerns as though he is reading a comic strip. What should I do? I care for him, but if we get back together we know that we would be getting married within a year and I am afraid that he won't welcome my lifestyle change. I am so confused. Any advice?
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