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WHY DO PEOPLE DO THIS TO ME?

Testycatlady
Testycatlady
I BEGGED people to not post jokes mentioning sex on my clean joke thread... So what do I find when I wake up? 2 jokes have been posted on it involving sex. I know the two jokes are considered mild, but it was my wish to avoid them all together. Why can't people treat people on this site with any respect? Instead they have to mock my request for a totally safe thread. I am dealing with abuse issues, and this just pushes my feelings of self worth in my face. To me it tells me that people don't care for my feelings. They don't care if they hurt them or not!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I appreciate your request however what you consider rude may not be what others think of as rude and they not have meant to offend you at all.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I care, I don't know hun, some are just insensitive, BUT most of us are! *hugs*
deleted_user
deleted_user
I care.
Testycatlady
Testycatlady
I asked for no jokes involving sex be posted on that thread. It's a matter of principle. It's like they are mocking my request to see how far they can go, before I go over the edge.

NEWS FLASH!!!

NOT FAR!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I care
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh :( im so sorry they did this Testycatlady. Especially after what happened last time. It was such a funny thread as well. I didnt mention it last night but it was the only time I laughed the whole day reading your jokes. Some people dont dont realise their jokes may offend others but I know you put it very clearly in your post what the thread was about. I hope you're okay.x
deleted_user
deleted_user
i don't know why sorry....
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sorry hope your ok xxx
deleted_user
deleted_user
Im sorry your upset Testy but the jokes were very mild and I dont think this person was trying to mock you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I KNOW! it isn't fair, i don't know why 2 ppl were rude
deleted_user
deleted_user
Some people just like to upset others for the heck of it. Sorry, tetsy. :(
Testycatlady
Testycatlady
I know they were mild... but if they are aloud, where do you set the limit? I asked for no jokes mentioning sex. It really is a touchy subject with me. I am just starting to deal with issues in my past, and my tolerance level on the subject is nill at this time. Maybe in time I will become more tolerant, but at this time I'm not ready for it.
ZAZAS
ZAZAS
We all deal with abuse issues in our own way, are you getting help with it? There are alot of great books on the subject, and therapy might help. Just don't give up is you get one of the dumb ass therapist, there are good and bad in the field. The first one I went to tried to convience me it did not happen......please, like it only took 20 years for me to get well enough to even talk about it. That's ok, sometimes I am motivated by my anger, she pissed me off so bad I went back to school.
Testycatlady
Testycatlady
My psychiatrist knows about it. I am not ready yet to go into details with him about it just yet. I am reading self help books at the time to help me get through it, and watch Joyce Meyer's programs and read her articles on it. I can only deal with it one step at a time, and slowly.
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