Do you guys get the optimism you have? I don't see how you can say that it will always get better when it clearly never will. I've been going downhill for 6 years now, and it's still looking grim. Not a glimmer of hope in sight. I just don't get how you can lie to yourselves like that...because the truth is that it never gets better. Nothing ever turns out right. Nothing ever works. Once you go under, you are never seen again. There is no chance at happiness once you have fallen. How do I know this? Because I am a living example. Once you are worn down to nothing, there is no way to fix your problems because you just don't care about them or you don't have the energy or money to fix them. That's just it. The whole point is, once you know you are going to be miserable forever, why keep suffering?
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