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ok....there is a lot of background to this one but i will try to keep it short. there is this girl i was friends with for about 20 years and we stopped speaking because i tried to let her know i was worried about how much she was drinking and the way she was running around behind her bf's back and i got attacked in a nasty way by her and a couple others for trying to get her to see what i had been saying to her for yrs and asking her to show some responibility. well it has been a few years now and i just ran into her ex and he asked me to tell him the truth about it all. for some reason her name has been popping up again a lot with my friends and they are letting her back in even though she was horrible to them for agreeing with me then. so this has been bugging me and i told him everything since i felt he should know. i would have told him anyway but she is making me nuts again! she is whining to everyone how mean some of us were to her when she was the one ruining her own life then. so i am wondering, would it make me feel better to call her on it once more and let her know this guys she screwed over finally knows every detail? what would you guys do? how would you get her out of your head?
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I would wash my hands of her, and move on, or she may well pull you right back in.
If you have to let it out, try writing in all out in a letter... but do NOT mail it... burn it in like a ceremony releasing you of her negativity.