i'm an inquiring mind that wants to know. it seems weird to me that every guy i work with who i talk to is puzzled when i tell them that i don't shop at the mall. its like they automatically assume that i dress ugly becuase i don't and then they start to lecture me about it. i usually just let them know that i have alot of expenses and buying lots of clothes is not in the budget. thats not the whole story tho. i also have trouble being comfortable in the mall and i've never really shopped in the mall my entire life and really until the past couple years or so i never really shopped anywhere for clothes. its just not a big deal to me cuz i still manage to look ok when i go out. so what is the big deal about shopping at the mall. i'm not against it or anything but i can also do without it too. in fact if i had alot of money i would probably go more often but it still wouldn't be a necesity. i only ask because i am noticing that when guys start making a big deal out of it, i get really turned off and lose interest in them. i just want to know if i am being fair or should i give them the benefit of the doubt.
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