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TOO. just thought i`d join you. if you want to let some rage out try beating up a pillow it always works for me

so sorry you gotta put up with this. i'm in the same boat. pisses me off too, especially the way they treat my mom, but i've learned that she's a big girl, when she needs me, i'm there, but she's gonna make her own decisions. maybe she's stronger than that cause she choses not to waste her energy fighting that battle. as for what you can do, my best advise is to keep your mouth shut, let him say what he wants and take it with a grain of salt. avoid him, don't look at him, if he asks a question, keep your answers short and straight to the point. took me a long time of getting my ass kicked to realize its not worth the fight... i know its not right, i don't know your situation but mine's either play along till i'm done with school or get out, and i'm not gonna leave over him. don't let him win, don't let him see you upset. just ignore it and make sure you give your mom a big hug.

You don't have to be violent to stand up for yourself. (big hugs) Don't let yourself be pushed around.

Lifes not allways fair and thats what makes you rage .including the fact that you instinctivly want to protect your mother .Just let her know your there for her ,let her know you love her tell her if you can, pick her some flowers if you cant.As for your stepfather he seems to be struggling with his own inner demons.

You dont' let anyone tell you if something is wrong with you or not. You will know if there is. And you do what you need to do for you. F*#& him!

go and get some kick boxing lessons and when your a blackbelt kick f**k out of him !!!!!

im trying my best not 2 let him bother me

life is so shit : (

cant cope

i cant cope

Honey I'll never know why some women put up with real shithole men but they do and there is nothing those who love them can do to chance that until the day comes when they see whats happening and they want to change it.
I'd be surprised if your mom knows how you feel or how seeing her mistreated is hurting you. Most women like that think no one notices what is going on, hell some of them are so far gone they don't even see they are being mistreated. This is one of those things that makes me feel the rage you are having. My solution was to one time only really get in their face and tell them how things looked to me and then if they wanted to work on change I'd help and if not I'd avoid them as much as I could because I couldn't deal with watching them be hurt.
How much longer will you have to live with them? Being on your own can be just as painful in some ways, it is not the solution to all our problems but it can be a big first step. Hugs

The thing is you need to positively reinforce yourself. "I can cope...I can cope...I will cope... I will cope..." and talking to us is one of your coping mechanisms.

just try to keep out of his way if you can hun xx only a couple more years and you will be able to move out. xx