
Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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Just two weeks ago I found and read my husbands IMs that he was exchanging with another girl (a friend of mine who I trusted unconditionally)...supposedly it was all just a crush and lasted for only a couple of weeks...but still, they would tell each other they loved each other and so on...on top of it all, I am six months pregnant with his first baby. I felt like my heart was ripped out...my husband doesnt seem to understand how horribly he had hurt me, this is me being pregnant and he is still able to "play around"like this! The funny thing is that he tries to kinda blame it on me and my stuggles and depression and anxiety. Its so hard and I dont know what to do. I come from the Czech Republic and cant see our baby flying around the world to see his mom and dad. Its not fair towards our son!
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I also think that most people who do something horrible try to blame it on someone else. It is easier to blame your pregnancy than to accept responsibility himself.
I am not sure what you should or shouldn't do but you have every right to feel hurt. What you do with that pain is up to you........just ask yourself if you can forgive him? And will he ever do it (or worse) again?
I wish I had an answer for you.......
That girl is NOT a friend, if you chose to forgive him, forget her! You know your husband, is he one to run around on you or is he kind of dumb to the ways of some women, easily taken in when flirted with?
actually, there is a guy who has been talking to me, & he is married, but he didn't confess until just now and I am having issues, b/c i have feelings for him.
Sex isn't required for cheating as their is "emotional cheating". Emotional cheating is just as damaging as if they had been have a sexual affair.
I recommend that anyone who has depression and is in a relationship have couples counseling. it won't always avoid these situations -- cause some people will cheat without a reason -- but it can go a long way to reduce the amount of hurt.