but something i feel i need to get off my chest. i see over and over certain ppl posting about how they need help and support and ppl running to them and nothing changes day after day! the ppl that do this claim it will never get better and that no one cares or understands yet everyday they have ppl running to their side begging them to hold on and keep going, showing that someone cares or could relate to them and then yet again ... it happens all over the very next day! others have posted about this only to be attacked and i am sure that i will be seen as horrible, insensitive and uncaring and will be attacked as well but i am so mad about this! there are ppl who really are in trouble that don't want to speak up for fear of being labeled but then there are the ones that cry wolf everyday and never seem to even try to make a move to help themselves. well....i have to say that everyday is a struggle for me and i almost never want to keep going but i do because i know that i am the only one who can truly help me find what i need to beat this or find a way to live with it that i am ok with. i know some will say but there are levels and some are so deep you can't see the end....well...no offense but f that! yes...i have felt that way too and somehow kept going. i am sorry to rant but i am really really tired of seeing the same names over and over and seeing them doing nothing to better anything in their lives and sucking others down with them. STOP LETTING IT BEAT YOU! even the deepest depression can become more easily handled...but you HAVE to actually try, not be coddled and told it will just get better on it own!!!!!!!! argh! ok....now i have said....let the bashing begin....sorry but i have been biting my tongue so hard for so long i think i can taste blood.
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