my mom always yells for no reason and gets irritated over small then and lashes out and when i confront her about it she just makes it sound like its my fault, i walked downstairs and got yelled at for telling my siter to bbuy bread because i was too lazy to check if it was still in the freezer, and i also got yelled because its apparently my fault that my teeth still arent fixed after braces, everytime i talk to her i get triggerred, like really angry i remember bak in october, she got me really mad because she said something to me, i cant remember exactly what it was, probably soemthign dumb, but i remember being very very angry, i smashed my phone and it cracked and it doesnt work anymore, also she triggered me a lot this other ime last year and i was so angry i stabbed myself, i try to be as uninteresting as i can so she can leave me alone, but sometimes its very disturbing, she does the same thing sometime to my siblings and i lways try to stick up for them but i end up getting yelled at, and im pretty sensitive so i will cry and i dont like crying infront of my family, she also always gives her unasked opinion on my sisters eating, like she will make food and my mom always comments and says shes getting a bigger stomach or soemthing, and then i will always say soemthing back like, "if you dont like what shes eatig then why dont you go make her food" and she will just laugh. also i know whoever is reading this probaably thinks my mom is a narcissicist, i did too and was freaking out but after a lot of research, i realized she cant be, there were times where she did things only somebody with empathy could do, but my mother also had a traumaic past, she watched her father get murdered infront of her at a young age, (i know that sounds wild but its true) i was eavesdropping and heard, she also had a dysfunctional family, i remeber going back home to where my moms family was in grade 2 and there was a bit of conflict and im not gonna go to deep but yeah theres no way my mom is a narcissicist, anyways if anybody knows how i can make her stop, like maybe there is soemthing i can say that will make her realize some of her words are damaging to me and my siblings
I need someone to talk to tonight. i'm not well. i'm suffering physically and mentally. i am being tortured and gas lighted by my family. would someone please caht with me a little bit. i need help
Hi.. this my first post.. I am going to sound so silly but I need a third person opinion on my situation. So, I am 24 years and have been in relationship with a guy for almost 4.5 years now. From our first meet, I got to know he's a very hard working guy who values his family so much even if they don't even respect him for his efforts (which is his personal life and I don't want to get into his...