trying to have boundaries with sister who is a smoker drinker and has a long history of poverty brought on by our childhood wars , i love her i was her older sibling. We came together again over brother death. but i am also trying to learn to detach. who has dealt with this . it is hard when you grow up in a war zone of alchoholism and dysfunction. Being the older one i feel guilty where she is concerned it was my mothers deep debilitating depression i seemed to be blessed with ,, Holidays bring it all up but doing the best i can .Dog is doing well so happy about that she pulled through.
If you have not read this, please do. A list of DS rules and policies. We currently have at least one high level scammer among us and they have been reported. Read, and beware.https://support.dailystrength.org/hc/en-us/articles/207778973-What-are-the-Rules-of-the-Road-