sometimes it does seem like that but i am learning here and in real life that i need to tell ppl how i feel whether they like it or not and whether i get told off for it or not. i know a lot of other ppl aren't to that point yet but all i can say is keep trying not to take too much to heart and to take everything with a grain of salt too. all of us hurt in some way and it is easy to misunderstand or lash out on a bad day. i am sorry that is how you feel here.

Unfortunately it is like the real world. Choose your friends wisely and report anyone that bashes you. People have differing opinions, and many of them talk about thier right to their opinion, but I have asked people in the past to also take respsonsibility for what they say - some agreed, some had a go at me - go figure!

I try to be friends with all.I can't handle bullies.You say what you bloodywell like!Not been on much lately.By all accounts there has been a lot of drama,so not sure of the politics.But don't be scared to put posts up : ) xx

Post away, :)

I did get reported last week though lol.Right seaside here I come(bloody freezing but heyho)!!!See you all soon mmmmmmmmwuah !!!xxxx

I feel the same way. Not only that, It would be nice if the serious post responces were more numerous. But, I guess I have to conceed this is not a perfect world.

Nadareal i agree with u serious post reponses would be ideal but i guess some people have nothing better to do then post silly things

reply 6 - take me to the seaside with you, that would make me feel so much happier than I do today. I adore being near the sea.

Dearest always post what you want to. Report the bullies and take to heart the rest of the advice you get. There are more good people here than bad. I have had much positive come by posting. I hope that rubyblues thread that her and I did this am did not hurt you in any way. My brother was put in ccu and she was being my rock. She knows me very well and knew that a little laughter would cheer me up.

Dearest...I havnt been on here long enough to see anything like that but I will say... this site is for people that are really down ( possibly suicidal ) and if things that are untoward going on then those people should be ashamed of themselves. Don't they realise that just one negative or nasty comment can push someone over the edge? Not tht they would ever know that a comment form them had ever made anyone do that as that person would no longer be around. Life is hard enough without negative comments from the people that you though were likeminded on here... keep it nice people... you never know what effect your comments may make someone who is not in their right mind do. :)

Pixie, I was just in a pissy mood, sorry, we are all friends so all is fine. It has done me good to let off a bit of steam, I'm usually straight to the point but not usually so catty. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr broody Mangoes!!!!!

Dearest, I gave you back your shoe in my thread when you kicked me arse.lol

I am glad you understand. Trust me, I could use no more tears last night and ruby is my rock. She knew a smile would come out of that madness. I went to bed feeling a little better. Heading to the hospital in a few minutes. You can be catty when you need to be and I am glad that blowing off steam has helped.

Unfortunately, there are problems here, but I find overall I get more good than not. I keep my own opinion... I will listen to those who diff. Some here are rather outspoken about their views, but c'est la vie.

I keep myself to the areas that help me or someone needs help & generally ignore the rest.

*hugs*

i can sooo relate. people here are mean but i think there are a few good peeps here too. and regardles, we're here to find strength and if it helps to write about it, then good for you! if people criticize: F-Them!! maybe it makes them feel better about themselves. and if thats the case, a lot of people must feel better about themselves because most of the "hugs" and comments to me are downright MEAN!

dearest you are so right. we have all been hounded and bashed at times for speaking our minds or responding to posts. the thing we have to remember, and i am trying to do this myself, is that this is a place to help others. i know the needy ones get pushed to the side at times when there is a post going on that is filled with attacks on each other. it is called " drama" i guess. i am trying to change this for myself. i will always post my feelings, however i will try and not personally hurt anyone on here. i think you should post to your hearts content, for it will make you feel better. we all have differences but we should have respect for each other. thanks for this post. i think it speaks to a lot of us.