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Well, as one of "those people" who say they are leaving and don't....I have said it twice now yes...but in my defense it's because I came here looking for support and friendship and yes I have found that to a small degree but I have seen a bigger degree of in-fighting.
Some may find that exciting...I don't. My depression and anxiety is off the chart right now and I am honestly searching for help. I am NOT seeking attention. If I was going to do that i would seek it from people who really know me. I am NOT threatening to leave either...because in reality...I have only been here a couple weeks...no one would notice if I left or not so what would be the point of threatening to leave? I am expressing how I feel at the moment...frustrated. I did mean it at the time I said it...but then the "nice" people come out and ask you to stay...they reach out and let you know there are people there to help you...who want to help you....and thats why I stay....I have been told to stay off the boards and only talk to me friends...but then I think...what about the other people out there who reach out? How can I help them if I don't read the boards?
So next time if I feel like leaving...I will make sure I do it quiety and just slip away....or come back un-noticed.
Some may find that exciting...I don't. My depression and anxiety is off the chart right now and I am honestly searching for help. I am NOT seeking attention. If I was going to do that i would seek it from people who really know me. I am NOT threatening to leave either...because in reality...I have only been here a couple weeks...no one would notice if I left or not so what would be the point of threatening to leave? I am expressing how I feel at the moment...frustrated. I did mean it at the time I said it...but then the "nice" people come out and ask you to stay...they reach out and let you know there are people there to help you...who want to help you....and thats why I stay....I have been told to stay off the boards and only talk to me friends...but then I think...what about the other people out there who reach out? How can I help them if I don't read the boards?
So next time if I feel like leaving...I will make sure I do it quiety and just slip away....or come back un-noticed.
meandthebeast
I wish you all the best in what ever you decide to do. I feel for you and the depression. It looks like it gets to the best of us.. If you ever need a friend.. Im here
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It's just like life hun. This place is no different. Take what works and leave what don't. It's not rocket science. DS is a snapshot of humanity and humanity generally has lots of different views.
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I can relate to what your saying however luckily ive not involved myself in the fighting...i sometimes shy away from dissagreement as i am really worried it will bring on anxiety but other times my stong mind comes out and I cant help listening to what others say (still i dont get involved... but in such a state). Just so you know im here to talk if you ever want to :)
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I too have only been here a short time but I still am aware no one in DS has a right to tell you to stay off the board or to talk to only your friends. And you are right, you cannot offer help and support to people if you don't post. As for leaving I don't consider that an option for me. I draw a lot of strenght off of the answers to other posts and I truly enjoy the people who drop by my journal, or sends me hugs, pm's and leaves me notes on my art gallery. I look forward to each day the things these friendly people add to my life. A few friends who cheer you up are worth more than a thousand who don't acknowledge you. Be happy here and have a good peaceful afternoon.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
