not at all,a lot of the helping is done in private.Please don't think that I m always up for listening if am online k? x

please dont think that i felt the same but there are definatly people that care if im online i would love to listen too xx

I felt the same way too but susy is right. Most of the real help is done privatly. don't loose hope or give up on DS.

Mya...sorry, with the way this board is written, posts can really quickly build up. Only the most recent posts get shows, so, in just the course of an hour or two, your posts might shifted lower on the list.

if a topic is important to you keep it 'bumped' to the top of the list

Mya...I should also add, there are some posts that I don't respond to because of the content of the post.

I think some issues are better left for professionals, so I may read, but not respond to some of those posts.

Feel free to message me though, if something is on your mind.

Your issues are very important hunny! I often feel ignored too. If you ever want to talk feel free to get in touch. I tend to forget about the discussions and private message people. xXx

no your issues are just as important, and I am sorry you feel let down or over looked, This same thing has been said over and over again...I will be more supportive of others feelings,,even if I dont know an answer to their question I will at least acknowledge their thread..HUGS

Sorry you feel you've been ignored. Its as ppl have said - a lot goes on with private mmsgs and some threads end up further down the list. If you feel you can, let us know what is bothering you, and that way ppl can get to know you, and thats when it gets easier

What is it you need, hon?

Your issues are NOT any less important. I think that most people read, but if they don't know exactly what to say, they don't always post. If I can't offer helpful advice, I just don't at all. I don't want to give the wrong advice, and end up hurting someone.

Make sure that when you post, you are specific in the title. If it doesn't stand out, I think they sometimes end up on the second page in a matter of minutes. This board is busy, and it's not right, but it happens sometimes. No one is trying to avoid you, please be sure of that. Make sure that you go back and "bump" your post every now and then also.

Hope I offered some help.

How are you feeling tonight? Do you want to talk about it?

no, your problems totally aren't less important! like ostoreon said, sometimes they just get moved down because there are so many! what's wrong?

I could see where that would make you feel unimportant, and their are a lot of factors. Sometimes it's the time you post and how many people are on. Sometimes there are so many posts it is hard to get to them all and/or they get down on the list, and off the short lists.

If you hit reply and write the word "bump" and send it, your topic will go back to the top of the list (where everyone will see it on the short list).

Don't be discouraged. It is not personal.

I feel the same way you do. But I also do agree with the other people. I get most of my help privately. It's just better for me to be face to face with a professional to help me cope.
But I do care about you and think your important.

Don't know about your other posts, except for one in which you ask for advice with your meds. Sorry, but I have a feeling that most folks are going to shy away from giving medical advice about prescription drug use to someone they don't know. Please keep that in mind. Sorry you feel you've been ignored. As you can see here, its usually about the topic and there are people here who care. Hope things improve for you!