Errrrr I have absolutely no idea what your talking about.

I left a message and a 'hug' as well. I believe in being transparent, and this is the first time I've reported someone for inappropriate messages / behaviour. As I said in my journal today, she may choose to report me right back, but I don't care.

THERE IS NEVER, EVER, EVER AN EXCUSE TO HURT OTHERS IN THE NAME OF NUMBING YOUR OWN PAIN. It's YOUR pain. YOU deal with it. YOU find supportive friends. YOU get better.

not offended at all,
I am glad you left the message you did, good for you

I think what she did was uncalled for. Clearly she is having her own problems but taking it out on a 19 year old girl is just horrible. Not offended if you went off at her cherokee.

try to calm down darlin...i'm with ya on this.

i pity her..truly. she's been reported..all we can do..besides trying to undo the damage by supporting the girl who was the target of such anger. yes? :)xoxo

perse you are so right. I have met people in life who feels their own suffering entitles them to inflict pain on others and it angered me. The solution never entered their hard hearts and lazy minds...

Restrained myself from doing the same, but just barely. Figured, what's the point? Anyone that mean wouldn't care about having her meanness pointed out anyway.

I agree maridon and cherokee - I read her page, and I saw a lot of pain. I am sorry so much pain is on the shoulders of a person, but there is never an excuse to lash out at others with hate, anger and bile.

It's a terrible cycle. Evil begets evil. Unfortunately now, because of her actions, she will be innundated with a possible ban, and not so positive 'hugs' and pm's. I am afraid that her pain will grow and no growth will come of all this.

All I'm trying to say, a sad situation for all.

It said something about schizophrenia on there. Now forgive me if im wrong but my dad had a type of schiz and some of em have multiple personalities ie: havnt a clue what theyve done until someone tells them later. im not saying that this is the case, but its a possibility :)

i advised her to seek additional help for her extreme ager issues b4 someone else is hurt.
she responded that she is...lets hope so.

when pain and hurt morph into such intense hatred, wow..must be so horrible.

not much to be done....except support her target today, u know?

u can't use reason on a person so ate up with anger and hate. very sad.

I don't know what unspecified posted for this other DS member go off on her so inappropriately, but there was no excuse for it. I'm not offended that you left a message on her journal cherokeewoman.

Thank all of you. Last night there was a post asking what would we pay doctors to cure our depression? So many said anything they had or could get. I am a firm believer our healing can't be bought or paid for. We must take responsibillity for our selves and that encludes this woman with her illnesses and hatreds. I am glad she responded to one of you and I hope unspecified is still a member and will remain one.

Cherokee there is nothing to explain. You saw a very hurt child attacked and you left a message to help her. That is probably appreciated and needed more than you know.

unspecified do not place yourself in the position of becoming another door mat for someone having a temper tantrum and this is what you are doing by saying "it's ok, she thought you want pity" It is not ok.

Mean people suck Unspecified.

It's not your fault. You didn't make them type that sh*t, you didn't make them mean, you didn't make them funnel their pain in a hurtful message.

Don't you be going around putting blame on yourself! That is unproductive and untrue!