I believe that the only way to really come out of depression is to fight like hell to stop blaming our past,,, I believe we need to lay new thought processes that automatically focus on the positive and with time and practice stop automatically swerving off along the blame, negtaive, depressive path.... blame helps no one....concerned to post my thoughts.... not sure of this site any more.. but what the hell, I have to speak my truth
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