I had a friend who was a bit wild and had loads of affairs behind her husbands back,it was nothing to do with me so i said nothing.I pften felt sorry for her husband because he was a nice man.Then out of the blue one day he turned up at my house saying he was in love with me.SHOCK.I never got any reason to think he even liked me.I told him to deal with his feelings and leave me alone as he had a wife.But that wasnt the end of it,phonecalls,he would turn up for a cup of tea with his wife and whn she left the room he would try to tak to me saying he couldnt forget me etc.Flattering but no no no i didnt want his attention.So with some thought i told him his wife had cheated.He got mad had a row with her but they sorted things out and now have a baby together.I had his wife screaming at me and we dont talk now.I feel guilty to this day and wonder if i had done the right thing.But i think it saved there marrage,but i came off with the worse end of the stick.She thinks im a bitch and he doesnt look at me (im glad of that)Am i a bitch? I didnt know what to do at the time.
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