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Something to Say Before I Leave

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I am writing this post for a friend, dearest. She was hurt from what some of you guys said about her from last night. It wasn't dearst problem. It was mine and NONE of you had the right to go and blame it on her. And I mean NONE of you. You guys have to learn to start agrueing and to start believing, and HELPING. That's what this site was made for. And personally, I am out of this site. People on here are mean, and cruel. And NONE of you had the right to say something was a hoax without actually knowing. We are ALL here for each other. ALLLLLL of us. We are all on the same boat. I wasn't gonna say anything, but when you hurt a FRIEND of mine, that's where you have crossed the line. You hurt her. You deserve to feel bad for hurting her. That's all I got to say. And THINK THINK THINK, before you go and ruin someones life just like mine, and hurting my friend. THINK. We are all on the same journey. Some of you people were just plain mean. I am discusted. I am done with this site, and I am done with being hurt. Sorry dearest that you had to go through the pain you went through. It wasn't even your problem. People were not right to judge you at all. And I am truly sorry.
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dearest is a sweety pie big hugs for her and you for being careing xooooooo
deleted_user
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no appolgy needed
deleted_user
deleted_user
I wasnt here but im sorry she got hurt....
She can talk to me if shes likes
Cathy
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I wasn't online last night, but I'm sorry dearest was hurt. I will miss her.
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Am gonna miss your hugs Emma
:-(
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
deleted_user
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ahem, I aint going anywhere, I came here to care, no one is going to stop me from doing that. Emma, thanks for that, I still believe you. xx
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I am sorry this happened....it is really a tragedy....and I'm jsut so sorry for everyone...my heart goes out to all of us....
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You must be a very good friend to have, be there for dearest, we all need friends like you. BOSIES
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I dont know what happened but Dearest always seems to come across as caring and straight and she can also have a laugh and a joke too. I agree.. theres way to much nastiness on here. The people that seem to have a go have a go because they dont like whats being said but they have no regard whatsoever that what they say may offend or upset people. Yes, this is a depression forum and yes people on here are suicidal at times but that gives no one the right to tell others what they can and cannot say on here.The people that are openly suicidal and threaten it constantly are treated with kid gloves... the ones that dont advertise it or dont want to hurt anyone get treated like absolute shit at times...its so wrong.
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Noone is dogging on Dearest. ... by the way - weren't you in hospital???!!

Glad you are ok, but next time you need attention, just ask for it, please don't post false suicide notices, it just gets everyone upset.
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I agree. There is a lot of nastiness on here. And Emma, ur right. I read ur posts, and I believe you to.
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I agree. There is a lot of nastiness on here. And Emma, ur right. I read ur posts, and I believe you to.
PeaceN2You
PeaceN2You
I don't think any of the people from last night's discussion meant to be mean or uncaring. We just don't appreciate being taken advantage of. If the situation was as described, it sounded like your husband left you on the floor and decided to have a go at the computer rather than get help for you. It's not hard to understand that some people were having a hard time believing that.
redsilverfox
redsilverfox
HUGS TO ALL, STAY PLEASE!!!!!!! THERE ARE ALWAYS DISAGREEMENTS WE ARE NOT PERFECT, & SORRY YOU ARE BOTH UPSET!!!!! BIG BEAR HUGS!!!!
deleted_user
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I told Emma what I pasted on here, she was fine about it. And as for the person who said that I am not a fully trained 'Samaritan' (despair and suicide counsellor)think again. Because I don't care what you think, I care about people and not your hate filled meaningless thoughts. And yes I am angry, yes dern angry, I have seen too many people die when no one believed them. I take each cry for help as genuine and if it's a hoax then at least that person is still alive. That's all that matters.
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