I ma guessing you are talking about your dad?

You've got 2 choices: believe what you know happened or let everyone else "tell" you what happened. You have nothing to prove to anyone else; you are an adult and if others don't support you, then it is their loss. They can choose what they want to believe and you can choose to distance yourself from them. If you love yourself, you'll never be alone because you'll have yourself.

I wish I knew what to say. Be strong, and keep standing up for yourself. You don't deserve to be treated like that.

Sometimes people think that by avoiding the truth, they can make it go away. It doesn't. Hang in there, sorry you have to go threw this.

I assume you are talking about confronting your abuser?
I'm new here and want to respond to you BabyGur...I have been where you are. My mother didn't believe me, my family cut me off for years, the story made the rounds in the extended family and they all just said I was trying to start trouble or I was nuts. However, years later, my 2 cousins stepped forward with their stories.
I confronted my cousin. He sold his house and moved to Mexico. :)))) You can make a difference. You already have.
Gather your supporters and nourish yourself with warm baths, favorite foods, big big blankets and baby yourself for awhile.
It gets easier with time.
Barb

Damn, that's so bad. I've heard that one parent will often go into denial because they just can't face up to the truth, but it must be so hard on you.

You can't change the past and neither can those fools who ignore it or deny it but you can make sure the future is different, You know what happened and you must never lat it happen again. Wishing you strenght and sunshine!