I am sincerely sorry for upsetting anyone. Yes my comment about pills was flippant, but you will see myself nor Starfish continued that type of talk on that post. It was others that continued that talk. Starfish and I began talking of Religion. I had sincere questions. Did I not?? We both talked last night and we will for sure start a new post in the future. Neither of us see how we could be so wrong for our thoughts, when the ones who were explicit are the ones being protected. I believe that Starfish and I have both been very helpful and supportive on all posts and messages we have received and sent. When you are "friends" with someone who is a good, decent helpful person and follows them to try to help, that's great, But when the one being followed purposefully makes a post that they KNOW will hurt others, then "trying to help that person" is not a defense. The post was started as a terrible one, but did turn into something good. Is talking about God and in my case Buddha not good? If you look on any post here, there is TONS and TONS of talk of God and His work. I was just trying to understand something and Starfish was just trying to explain. I read almost all of the posts here and see all the God talk and have never said anything negative about it. It's not necessarily my belief, but I have told others I would pray for them and have asked for prayers..the "prayers" just are not the same. But if one of you prays and then another person prays to God, it's not the same prayer either. Sorry don't mean to get complicated. I just don't understand why the attacks on the board, but NOT one negative private message?? Please don't take everything out on Starfish..look back on posts and re-read the thanks TO her for her support or thought or perspective. She is also what makes this site work and thrive. Remember the saying "It takes all kinds to make the world go round"??
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