I dont know if its normal but Ive had similar feelings... Is there a specific other guy or just the want for something differant?

Hey I'm 21 and I have no intention of settling down with anyone ever you're only young chill thyself. totally normal. I'm off to get me some this week anyways. Always good to have a fuckbuddy :)

It's damn hard to stick to one person but if you can do it I imagine it will totally be worth it hang on in there dudette x

if its a particular guy then you might have a problem. but if its just with other guys in general its totally normal for people our age if you arent in love with someone. but if you think you ARE in love...well you got some thinkin to do..

hey! You should forget things like "normal" or "not normal" :) What you feel now is what matters, not what other people think of it! I am nearly 26 and everytime I have been with xomeone it has not stopped me from fantasing about others. It doesnt mean you dont love your partner, its just that you have sexual appetite and its not so bad! The only real issue is if you actually had sex with another guy; until now, just chill... I bet most guys have dreams about other women as well :)

Well I have a boyfriend that I do care about, but I just can't stop thinking about other guys. I even talk to some other ones, and I soooo want to get out of a relationship.

It doesn't make sense!!!

My sexual urge is even worse when I'm down.

I am married and think about other men. I would never do anything, because i love my hubby, but I understand your frustration. I don't necessairly think it means you don't care about you boyfriend, I think it is more of a curosity as to what is out there.

Sja I agree with you totally, its just curiosity. Ayngel if you are feeling depressed, you are not really in the right mood to judge your relationship fairly :) you might want to get out now because of many reasons related to your depression, but if you were in a "normal" state you would not even consider it. Dont worry, its not because you are with one person that your sexual self shuts down, most people fantasize about having sex with celebrities etc. Its the same with other guys, as long as you dont actually cheat...

I'm worried I will cheat.

you have not done it yet, that means something! I am repeating myself but when ou are depressed and you feel lonely you just do stupid things and cheating is one of them. If you do it, its not good but its part of the silly things one does when depressed so dont be too hard on yourself. Right now, you have NOT done it so dont worry about later. Maybe try for more exciting sex with your man? Eventually I still think when you get better you wont even think of this.

well, my boyfriend isn't that supportive of my emotions, and it would be nice to feel something different for a little while

meaningless sex will make you feel WORSE, I speak from experience. You will feel dirty and used, do not do it. You will NOT get understanding from some random guy :)Your boyfriend is not supportive, but give him a chance. Tell him what you feel and that you NEED his support to get better.

I'll be honest here, Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and im coming to 26 now, and I often want what your talking about. Ive thought about cheating and Ive thought about breaking up and finding someone new... but a lot of what im feeling is caused by my own insecurities.

Think hard about your partner and whether he is what you want and then decide whats best for you. But dont be ashamed for looking or thinking, after all guys do it all the time.

wow, that is so great that someone else is feeling the same.

i just don't know what to release my feelings on...

What is that?.....

Normal is a myth. You feel how you feel. You just have to take the time to know yourself and if your depressed that can be difficult.