I have heard people say that even when you don't really feel like it you should try because it's one of those use it or lose it things. I'm really not sure about other meds.

a doctor is really the only one who can tell her what will work best for her...but

Wellbutrin does not seem to diminish sex drive or cause weight gain :)

I didn't have any issues on Zoloft. I had some side effects for 2 weeks but mostly lack of sleep or nausea and loss of appetite. I didn't have much change to my sex drive either but perhaps try horny goat weed. It is herbal so shouldn't clash with meds

I agree with hiareth, Wellbutrin does not seem to have sexual side effects. It can be taken in tiny amounts. When I had a script I only took it when I could feel the panicy overwhelmed,weepy feeling coming on, and or during it. My symptoms were gone in usually 30 to 60 mins and I did not have to do it more often then a few times a month. However I am very sensitive to meds. and my method is not for everyone. Myself, I cant stand having it built up in my system. I just need it to rough out tthe edges for a day or so and I can get it back together. When it comes to libido, I had problems with prozac,zoloft and serequel. And also the depo-provera shot it reduces a womans testoterone levels slowly but surely. And that hormone is what gives a woman her drive! Also for general mental wellbeing(which is the best libido boost) try amino acids, L-Arginine is the number 1 ingrediant in the majority of "woman's drive boosters" you can get at any good vitamin place, it helps your brain and body repair it self quicker thus making you feel better, I swear by it in combo with other repairing aminos and tissue rebuilders. Sometimes just a good multi vitamin can get your brain chemistry back where it needs to be, if you have a sensitive stomach ,take the most important ones to your daily health seperately,and with food.Anyhow hope some of this info helps:) -trgrl