froll come and talk to me...>:(x

Froll I am sorry that you are dealing with all of this. I dont know anything on this subject. I do hope that you figure things out and my reply will bump you so hopefully someone with this disorder can help you out.

I use to hit & bruise myself for 20 years.... I got in a fight with a friend this past August. I had a broken razor & put a 9 inch cut along my forearm (quite shallow) but things have been getting worse & worse since then.

feel free to message me anytime... I can listen anytime.

*hugs*

Tho if I understand my friend right, we need to want the light that creates the shadows more than the dark the accents the light.

mesg me if u need to talk i dont get why we even pick up the blad eather

froll ...pm me...

i hate that i feel weak and cut to feel alive i just wanna wake up one day whan the depression is gone or managable and smile at myself instead of frowning coz all i see are the scares of inner pain showing the cuts

cap is good with talking to ppl about this i would talk to cap he and 13blue are great talking about this

Listen to Cap my friend, this is the chap who convinced me that throwing my razors out was good for me.

If you need to talk, message me. I'll reply as soon as I see it.

you have to replace that habit with a positive habit.

I am sad to hear this, I am sorry I don't know much about self hurting, I hate pain I could never cut or hurt myself, I have enough pain from arthritis. Are you a religious person. If you have tried all the theropy and meds. and they have not worked for you try God, I know he can help. If you would like to know how to reach him I will be glad to help you, just message me. God helped me where theropy, and meds. failed. Now I am a totally changed person I love myself, I want to live now. It can happen for you to.

froll, i understand. i do. i struggle with it too. for those that don't understand, i know it's hard.... but there is a relief in cutting that can't really be explained... i'm with you...looking for ways not to hurt myself... i feel exposed writing this.. but unless i (we) all let it out of the closet, how can we possible well? i'll help as much as i can... it's one of the hardest, in my opinion to overcome... but i know it can be done... i trust it can be done. i have gone for long periods of time when i don't... then i do....and hate myself for it. just know, you are soooo not alone in this very misunderstood method of coping = dysfunctional as it is... it is about coping. xo

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