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Do you get an overhwelming feeling sometimes that the person your talking to hates your guts? That's happening to me on a daily basis now and I cant help wondering if it's just me being paranoid. The job I'm in does put me in situations where people can be hostile but I've always been able to handle that before. Now I'm surrounded by people who I just feel would rather I buggered off and left them alone. It's hard to stay possitive when your surrounded by so many negetive vibes
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just think.."im a positive person"...its there problem if they are negatives...rise above them shad...everythings good in our world....>:)
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No Shadrack, you are a funny and wonderful person. I am sorry you have to put up with this negativity. Try as long as you can mate and then do what you have to do. It will be their loss, not yours.
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No, I figure they just don't careeven the friendly ones.
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I think what you are feeling is just the depression lying to you. You have to remember that depression does that.
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Sometime's I KNOW that everyone hates me.

I fuckin do!
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im glad im not alone, i feel like that too. seems like people don't like me. i have been told its the depression that makes everything seem negative but i don't know. u come across as a really nice person and im sure its the depression thats makeing u feel this way. try writing down all your good points and focus on them, thats what i have been told to do. it might work. let me know how you get on. take care xx
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Either that, or I really imagined it?
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Shad, it's not what they think of you that's important, it's what you think of them that counts. xx
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I don't think they really hate you, it's you depression telling you that.
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it's the paranoia of depression.

most days I just feel every fucking person hates my guts.

even people I know who care, I *feel* like they would like me to say the final byebye.

yes, sense tells me I'm not thinking straight, but sometime the paranoia can be very loud & convincing.

*hugs*
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my ex-landlord was like that. Never mind he was sleeping with a boy( under the age).
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hi hun

well the onlt thing i can think of is that it has to do with ur depression. it is the simle fact that u are not able to see clear and have diff thoughts to how u were b4 u had depression. i know it is hard but believe me wen ur depression goes so will this feelin. its like u have no patience with them now as u have so much goin on in ur own head .x
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always. But in the past year that's changed a lot i think cos i've become a little tougher. You don't like me I don't like you mwhahahahahahaha
But unless the other person shows any definite signs of disliking me i resolve to stay neutral and it usually passes
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I had the same problem at work. Everyone was negative and towards me also. It really escalated and I finally quit my job. I am kind of afraid to find another one because I am worried that it may happen at the next work place I am at. Kind of paranoid too.
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