trash like in school

I just dont do it and blame it on the illness.lol.

On a serious note...my illness does make me frustrated and I get totally down and lazy. Once upon a time, my old doc wanted me to write down my week for him. That was a year ago and he is still waiting.

yes, and it usually means I feel to overwhelmed by whatever it is I am supposed to work on to do it. I sit it aside for that day, and try to go back to it, if I just can't bring myself to do it, I talk to my therapist about it when we have our next appointment

I usually avoid things I am sensitive about, are painful, and I beat myself up about.

Sometimes, I can't read books about parenting if I feel real bad about myself, cuz I just feel worse when I read about what I am NOT doing...frame of mind kind of thing

know what you have to do, decide how you can accomplish it, plan it out, and go for it, write things out, and do the best you can for yourself. I had "therapy homework" a month ago, glad i got it done, but it took a long time to get it done. I need to work on being a self starter and organized. go for it kiddo:)

I bluff my way through it LOL
I don't get written work to do it is more cognitive things to think about. I never do it. I am pretty good on my toes. ...
uhhhhh...did I mention i gave my therapist this link and he will probably read this LOL...
me thinks me in trouble at next session LOL

I ask because with every therapist, they would give me homework and then I couldn't do it. I failed, so then I would quite.
I would like to go back into therapy to work on some stuff, but I'm affraid it would be a waist of money because of the way I have acted in the past.

that's cognitive therapy. which is really helpful to a lot of people. myself included. i find the pro-active and accountable approach MUCH better for me than to sit and whine about why mommy didn't love me. lol
just me.
perhaps u'd benefit from tradition type therapy. :)
xoxo

same thing I did in school....Ignore it then BS the teacher . make something up.

excuse my last comment please. I am grumpy today. What I said was true however not helpful.
I just try to do the best I can every day.
Some days are better than others.

oh shoot, do it, you might like it. I have also enjoyed psych stuff, so I did it to the best of my ability. What you have to do, read, genogram, write? Oh, just all kinds of wonderful tools to use.

gee. I need glasses.

Why? Did you not see something?

um, ya......it is not fun but I have found through my education in psych nursing that doing the homework does help. i try to make it fun. Ya, i work in psych nursing and still am a mess. guess thats why I like the crazies!

Thanks. I just set up an appointment with some lady. OMG I am nervous. I hope this isn't a waste like it has been the past millions of times.

doing something isn't a waste of time . It might be fun.