I feel this way so often, dont know what advice I can giveyou sweetie

I understand. I just try and be as supportive as I can while retaining the thought that good things come to those who wait.

I know it can be hard when other people are celebrating around you. Just do your best sweetie, that's all any of us can do.

i guess just by knowin that when u r happy, they'll be happy 4 u...n until then im sure u can share in some of their happiness ? xx

Hey hon. I know how you feel. I see good things happening to others and in some way it hurts me. I sit back and daydream about all the things Id like to be. I have recently noticed that depression makes you stop living and just try to survive each day. I think thats where the jealousy comes in. I wish I could be there and hug you and walk and talk with you sweety. I think its just a matter of getting the right kind of help and getting to a place where you can start to live again.

Truthfully, the only way to do it, is to just do it. Put it away, never to think about it again and focus on what it is you want. We always want what the other person has and fail to see what we have is just as great even though not the same.

Jealousy is a normal human emotion. If you feel it, you feel it. Once you feel better and you will, you will experience less of it. I once read that the happiest people are the people who are grateful for whatever they have. It's the nasty depression that's making you feel bad.

Whether we face it, deny it, try to drown it, we all are always confronted with how we really feel. Although I have no rock solid advise to make things better, to know how we actually feel is a good start. There is no such thing as a "bad" feeling (ie; anger, rage, jealousy, etc.) Hope this makes sense. Peace.

Jealousy comes out comparing ourselves to others. Happiness for others comes when you recognize how "good" you have it.

There are those who don't have access to doctors. There are those who could be helped but cannot afford, or have no access to medication and treatment.

There are thousands who will starve and die tonight. There are those who will be killed tonight.

The only trick to jealousy is to recognize it as a pointless state of existence that only robs you of enjoyment.

Thanks you all for you advice.

I just felt this way yesterday with my sister. She is younger than me. Getting married in the bahamas next month, has a new home, new fiance who makes excellent money and he even balances the check book! She doesnt see a bill and is free to spend. SHe came here yesterday and was telling me about the pumpkins and the costumes she got for her son and soon to be step son. She told me about the costumes for herself and the costume shop they went to. COSTUME SHOP! I cant even go to walmart yet for costumes. After she left I realized that life is still going on all around me and that it is me with the different perspective of it. I am going to try to think more positively and not let others happiness bother me but enjoy it with them.

Thanks again guys!!!!!!! I know I just need to get out of this depression pit. It is just I feel like the harder I try the more things happen to bring me back down. It great to have you guys here. Thanks again, Ally

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