Have you got an older brother or sister or relative who can advise you? This is a tricky one. What he did isn't illegal but it's definately distasteful. If I were you I woudn't want to be anywhere near this man, is there no way you can tell your parents?

If it were me I would tell them anyway. But, be prepared for him to lie if you do. It may also cause a riff within the family. I know this because something very similar has happened to me.

My main concern would be if there are children around. He could go a step further and not use pictures.

This will not be an easy decision for you. Good Luck Blessings.

God I WISH IT WAS A JOKE....I know it's such an odd situation and I haven't told ANBODY because it is so odd so I turn too you guys because..well.. I know you won't be judgemental or anything. I have no older brothers or sisters...and I have thought about telling my parents.

OH......MY...........GOD. you poor thing, that is like something that would only happen in a Ben Stiller movie!!
I would tell your parents, you shouldn't have to protect him. That way at the family Christmas thing they can help keep you away from him.

Mary,

I didn't realize your age. Please tell your parents right away. He could become aggressive toward you if he knows you will keep a secret.

Sorry Mary I didn't realise your age when I first posted my reply. I've messaged you. Please tell your parents.

I know I know I should tell them, but we are like the average American family. I don't know how to just say.."hey mom, Uncle Mike took a picture of me from my dresser jerked off and came all over it" ....this shit happens to other families..not mine

Can't you speak to your mom when she's on her own? say "There's something I need to tell you and i'm worried how you'll react but please listen..."

you are right..I know

What a horrible thing to happen to you hun. Maybe you could write down what happened and give it to your mom. Sometimes its easier to write it down instead of having to build up the courage to say it in person.

Please tell your parents asap. I agree with Mia, it can be easier to write something then say it. There's no particular "right" way to do it, don't worry about that. Just do it any way you can. There is no wrong way. I am afraid if you don't tell them he may take things to the next level and try to act on his completely inappropriate feelings. Please keep us posted on what happends from here. Hugs to you dear..

This is serious. It is an issue that divides people as well. From somewhat an indirect experience that I've heard from based on similar circumstances, the perpetrator has the choice to lie...However, from what I experienced, the person involved went further and assaulted this person for 5 years!!! It was very sad. She is now going into college and I wonder if she'll choose somewhere far away to get away from him. She finally confronted her parents because her mom noticed her behavior had changed and she was acting out of character. Then she confessed. Her father had him arrested....the weird thing....and good thing...he confessed...and he's now in jail..... Be careful who you stay alone with.

I agree with you all.. I will build up the courage to tell my parents..somehow. I don't see him taking it any further then what he did and to be honest if he did it without me knowing about it I guess it wouldn't matter... but whatever

Sweetheart, that is awful! I know it will be hard but you REALLY need to tell Mom and Dad. This could be a precursor to worse behavior. Stop it now before it gets out of hand.
Love, hugs and support.

I think you should talk to you family about this. There is nothing to say that he would take his thoughts further but if one of your parents could point out to him that they know what had occurred he will more than likely keep his distance whether he denies it or not. It will send him the message that you are not going to keep quiet about this kind of attention. Good luck.x