I have come to the conclusion that people do not realize something vital. Here it is....wait for it....You are only responsible for your own behavior. No one else's. We are hard enough on ourselves with out taking on the terrible behavior of others. Be gentle with yourselves. Listen to that voice deep inside that tells you it is okay to make a mistake it is okay to be human. It is okay to own up to our own faults. But not those of others. The users in this world would have you take on the responsiblity for their flaws as well.. "you made me do this", " you asked for it". etc. It is all bull. Take back yourself. Do not let the mean and the using and the conciousless deal with their own mess. Dont let them make it yours. I love you all. Mishka. Hugs.
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