
Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

deleted_user
Hi all. Im having a really bad time of it right now and cant talk to anyone offline. My life is in a mess and im going downhill fast. Me and my partner broke up on saturday night. We had been out and he was flirting with a girl that he knows. I ignored it. Then, after we had come in from having a fag, this girl walks in front of him, grabs his hand and puts it behind her back. Kind of an unusual thing to do to someone that you dont really know etc. Anyway, I looked to see what my partner would do and he didnt do anything. He didnt remove her hand from his, he didnt say " hey, what are you doing ", he did nothing. I then walked out. He came after me and I told him to leave me alone. This isnt the first time ive had words with him about this sort of thing. Ive said to him so many times that if he flirts when im there, what is he like when im not but he just never got it. He stayed out all night and came back in the morning. I asked what he was doing and he said he was leaving. His mum says he loves me but if thats true, why does he have this need to flirt and hurt me all the time? Why cant men be happy with what they have? Theres more to it than what ive written but this is just to sum up.
i feel like hes ripped my heart out. Not only that but we have a 7 month old baby who he hasnt thought twice about. he was meant to have been in work this morning and he isnt. He never dosnt show up for work. My mind is working overtime and ive convinced myself that it was all a smokescreen and that hes now with someone else. If he is, why couldnt he just be honest and say that? Hes left me with bills coming out of my ears and when I mentioned it all yesterday, he said he didnt want to talk about it. I know ive got to be strong for my baby but I cant stop crying. I havnt eaten or slept in 2 days and im literally fallin apart.
i feel like hes ripped my heart out. Not only that but we have a 7 month old baby who he hasnt thought twice about. he was meant to have been in work this morning and he isnt. He never dosnt show up for work. My mind is working overtime and ive convinced myself that it was all a smokescreen and that hes now with someone else. If he is, why couldnt he just be honest and say that? Hes left me with bills coming out of my ears and when I mentioned it all yesterday, he said he didnt want to talk about it. I know ive got to be strong for my baby but I cant stop crying. I havnt eaten or slept in 2 days and im literally fallin apart.
Posts You May Be Interested In
-
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
-
Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...
I can say that I know what your feeling and loving one that doesnt love you in the same way always hurts.. always..
You need to keep your head up and your self-esteem for your children. This happens everyday to both men and women.. And the pain is devastating.. But it does go away and you will continue on with your life. But your children need you more then ever right now as hard as it is..
Remember... " Sometimes goodbye is a second chance " Good luck hon