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ok im in an abusive relationship for yrs now anyway he lost his job lastweek he' s been looking for another one everyday no ones hireing i gave him untill friday or hes gone now i was planning on kicking him out anyway soon but am i a bitch for doing it before the holidays? he has no family there all gone now he has nothing im not in love with him but i feel bad what should i do kick him out to be homeless or what? please i need advise its killing me i cant think please help
mynameisD
If you are in an abusive relationship, kick him out. Why are you feeling sorry for someone that abuses you? Take care of yourself.
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honey why should you give this man anymore of yourself?? he has abused you and now this is emotional abuse..he's a big guy he can sort himself out, dont feel guilty cos im sure as hell certain he didnt when he abused you!!of course your going to feel bad about it but when is a good time!! you see there isnt and you can put it off and put if off but its something you know you have to do lovely xx
deleted_user
i agree coz he makes ur life hell i kno he does coz we spoke bout him before..kick him out and start over for urself..u never gonna move on with him holding u down
deleted_user
If this man has abused you for years, I am giving you permission to be as bitchy as you want lol x Seriously, hasnt he already made you feel bad enough? Dont waste anymore time on him. And good for you for finding the strength :o)
deleted_user
i know i guess i just feel like a mean ass doing it now my heart is to big but i know you are right i gotta just do it thankyou death2me and sandie1
deleted_user
i wish i had strength if i really did hed be gone already i know what i must do its just the after im worried about
deleted_user
lol wat bout me i commented also lol anyway yea u got a good heart so that makes u too caring but lok after urself first
deleted_user
thanks duzzie and fluttery
deleted_user
goodluck hun, its going to be hard regardless of the abuse he has been in your life a long time, but now you have to rebuild and thankfully you now know you have the strength to do just that!! hopefully he will sort his own issues out and not take it out on his next relationship!! you are an inspiration to any others considering the same action.. remember there is never a good time, just do it without too much thought if you can hun
deleted_user
sorry this is happening to u and no ur not being the b word he deservs to be kicked out and i will help u out i will shove a crutchs up his fucking ass and tell him to get the hell out now
mynameisD
You are worried about the after? Are you worried that you will have peace in your life? Are you worried that no one will abuse you? Are you worried that you will no long be walking on eggshells? What about the after are you worried about? You need to worry about you now. You need to take care of yourself. Turn some of that big heart onto yourself. Save yourself now, please.
deleted_user
im gonna do my best its hard to concentrate when your depressed like i am so it dosent help i knew all along i guess i was just needing backup thankyou all you see i kicked him out once before 2 yrs ago for 3 months he called and cried and came over he was living in the woods starveing to death and stupid ass me felt bad and took him in see im a freaking loser but this time ive gotta keep my mind
deleted_user
No you're not a bitch you're being practical if you ask me. He obviously isn't giving you any real affection abusing you and now that sad shite isn't even bringing home some money? If you were having trouble getting rid of that parasite before you sure as hell shouldn't now. I'm sorry for sounding harsh but I have no time for abusive anybodies.
deleted_user
thankyou your not harsh your all right ive just been weak time to grow balls.
deleted_user
abusive says it all... out and I wouldn't wait til Friday.
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