I cannot stand being around my mother and sister together. I can tolerate my mom and live in the same town (only child out of 3 who lives in same town as parents), but don't really like my sister. Getting together with both is really hard. They bring out the worst in each other, and it stresses me out and then depresses me that they just can't get along. They both annoy me on their own for the most part (not my mom so much-just when she and my dad argue), but together, forget it! Then they both act like it's the other one when I talk with them alone later! I feel like I'm in the middle and have told them, but they tell me not to worry about it and they don't care if they get along, don't let it bother me blah blah blah. Is it o.k. to refuse to see them together, or do I need to suck it up, grow up (38 years old) and deal with it a few times a year? I am dealing with depression as it is, without meds (they slow me down too much), I don't need their crap. Anyone? There is more backstory here, just want to start a dialogue with someone first. Thanks.
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