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need some help!

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where to begin. my mom got sick in august.( her kidneys almost shut down). and got better. ever since auguest she has been in and out of the hospital. and right now she has gotten much worst. and is in the early stages of heart disease. and she has diabetes. and her vision is starting to go. and i dont think she is going to make it threw this.
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Even though it's going to be hard i think the best thing you can do is just be there for your mom. Just dont forget to take a little time for yourself also even if its just a 5 minute breather now and then. make the best of the time you have. It might be depressing and you may think you cant handle it but you will regret it more in the long run if you dont do everything you can now.
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All you can do is be there for her. It sounds like she got dx'ed late, and is suffering the problems that happen with diabetes. Yes, it is going to be hard. Yes, you will need to take some time to yourself. You will need to recharge from time to time. And don't forget, we are here if you need us.

Uther
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Its gonna be hard for you, but I agree that the best thing is to be there for her,and try to make her happy. It will help you greatly.
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Hi. Im Sandy and I lost my mother at 23 and my Dad this past September. Its hard, almost unbearable. If you feel like you need help dealing with this even for a short while, go see your doc and explain your stress and get a mild anxiety or depression med. Then, take turns with family or friends, even if they give you an hour break, and go for a drive, or go window shopping. Trust me, I will never regret being with my oarents thru there sickness and death. its so hard, but you will be at peace knowing you took care of her to the best of your ability like she did you. If shes home, see about getting a home health provider, to sit with her and give you some you time. My mom came home and went peacefully right here. I saw total contentment and relief and peace on her beautiful face. I cried, but I feel good I was with her. Same with dad. He was in the hospital but I got there a half hour before God took him. I held his hand. I told him I loved him and he was the best dad ever. I cried so hard, but was glad to be with him. Is something I will never regret. I now go to therapy and deal with many issues, including those times. You will be ok and Im praying for you. Take care of yourself and remain strong for her.
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