To make a long story short ive been seeing this guy for about 15 months and about a month ago i asked him where I stood in his life and he told me just really close friends, ok so asking him differnt times i decide that maybe i should try to meet someone who wanted more of what i wanted.. so needless to say i did and everything hit the fan. My guy has cryied many times to me as i have him over this whole deal, he keeps saying i cant belive you cheated on me.ok if he states we are just friends then hows it cheating? He then tells me i need to be punished to let him know just how sorry i am for doing what i did. Yes i did wrong but i did not cheat in my eyes when i asked him time and time again where we stood and he stated"friends". so i guess im asking what do from here?
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