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Ok I am probably goign to blow my cover and wish I hadn't but I think I owe a few of you an explanation to what has happened.
I was onn DS board for abotu 3 months...My STBX and I were tryign to work things out between us adn I showed him the board...so he joined!
BIG MISTAKE!!!!!!!!!
So I asked doug to remove my accoutn from DS...I was not about to stick around on a board where teh STBX was goign to make me look bad, bash me and harrase my friends...so I left!
I decided tocome back under a different name nad start fresh, but it looks as if that is not going to happen either!
When I rejoined DS...I joined several communities to sort of throw my STBX off so he wouldnt'be able to find me!
I joined the divorce grouup and the widow/widowers group.
I guess somebody on tehboard found out and questioned who this could happen. I have written to this person several times explaining why I did what I did, but no responce!
I AM A WIDOW! I lost my husband of 18 years back in 1999. It was the hardest thing in the world for me to go through. Even though he was far from perfect...I loved him...he was a huge part of my family and we all miss him dearly!
So, I felt that even if I have to blow my cover nad deal with either leaving the boards again for good or dealign with my issues on my own...that I owed a few people an aploigy for whatever was misunderstood on their part!
So yes...to answer the question...I am a widow of a man I was with for 18 years of my life...adn yes I am going through a divorce from a man I have been married to for 7 years.
So that is me in a nutshell take it or leave it...it is YOUR CHOICE!
For those of you that choose to leave it...I can thank MY STBX for being an a**********
I was onn DS board for abotu 3 months...My STBX and I were tryign to work things out between us adn I showed him the board...so he joined!
BIG MISTAKE!!!!!!!!!
So I asked doug to remove my accoutn from DS...I was not about to stick around on a board where teh STBX was goign to make me look bad, bash me and harrase my friends...so I left!
I decided tocome back under a different name nad start fresh, but it looks as if that is not going to happen either!
When I rejoined DS...I joined several communities to sort of throw my STBX off so he wouldnt'be able to find me!
I joined the divorce grouup and the widow/widowers group.
I guess somebody on tehboard found out and questioned who this could happen. I have written to this person several times explaining why I did what I did, but no responce!
I AM A WIDOW! I lost my husband of 18 years back in 1999. It was the hardest thing in the world for me to go through. Even though he was far from perfect...I loved him...he was a huge part of my family and we all miss him dearly!
So, I felt that even if I have to blow my cover nad deal with either leaving the boards again for good or dealign with my issues on my own...that I owed a few people an aploigy for whatever was misunderstood on their part!
So yes...to answer the question...I am a widow of a man I was with for 18 years of my life...adn yes I am going through a divorce from a man I have been married to for 7 years.
So that is me in a nutshell take it or leave it...it is YOUR CHOICE!
For those of you that choose to leave it...I can thank MY STBX for being an a**********
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We seem to be getting a number of people, new members and people who don't seem to be bipolar either telling people to use "treatments" other than meds, implying meds aren't needed or that you can add further chemical based treatments (like herbal suppliments bought on the net) without discussing it first with a pharmacist, doctor or other proper medical practitioner.Jan and I are extremely...
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What would YOU do if you won the lottery? If I won I would find a program or place that treats the WHOLE body, not just with chemicals or talk therapy, to find a mental health regimen that would FINALLY work for me. I would work to get off of my meds altogether. (Years and years of taking meds that don't help have left me frustrated and fairly angry.) Treatment for mental illness is not for the...
STBX soon to be x...lol
THANKS BECK...I do love ya for that one!
Not only are you very poignant, clever, tenacious, but you are just downright fun.
I guess I just do not understand why I should have to leave the Ds boards just because my soon to be ex hubby wants to play mind games with other people!
I havefound this board and the people to be hte best on the web their support has been endless!
So sorry I sounded so harsh!
xoxxoxoxox
Not true, but Oh whatever!
I am glad you all have my back...I love ya all soooooooomuch