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Ok I am probably goign to blow my cover and wish I hadn't but I think I owe a few of you an explanation to what has happened.
I was onn DS board for abotu 3 months...My STBX and I were tryign to work things out between us adn I showed him the board...so he joined!
BIG MISTAKE!!!!!!!!!
So I asked doug to remove my accoutn from DS...I was not about to stick around on a board where teh STBX was goign to make me look bad, bash me and harrase my friends...so I left!
I decided tocome back under a different name nad start fresh, but it looks as if that is not going to happen either!
When I rejoined DS...I joined several communities to sort of throw my STBX off so he wouldnt'be able to find me!
I joined the divorce grouup and the widow/widowers group.
I guess somebody on tehboard found out and questioned who this could happen. I have written to this person several times explaining why I did what I did, but no responce!
I AM A WIDOW! I lost my husband of 18 years back in 1999. It was the hardest thing in the world for me to go through. Even though he was far from perfect...I loved him...he was a huge part of my family and we all miss him dearly!
So, I felt that even if I have to blow my cover nad deal with either leaving the boards again for good or dealign with my issues on my own...that I owed a few people an aploigy for whatever was misunderstood on their part!
So yes...to answer the question...I am a widow of a man I was with for 18 years of my life...adn yes I am going through a divorce from a man I have been married to for 7 years.
So that is me in a nutshell take it or leave it...it is YOUR CHOICE!
For those of you that choose to leave it...I can thank MY STBX for being an a**********
I was onn DS board for abotu 3 months...My STBX and I were tryign to work things out between us adn I showed him the board...so he joined!
BIG MISTAKE!!!!!!!!!
So I asked doug to remove my accoutn from DS...I was not about to stick around on a board where teh STBX was goign to make me look bad, bash me and harrase my friends...so I left!
I decided tocome back under a different name nad start fresh, but it looks as if that is not going to happen either!
When I rejoined DS...I joined several communities to sort of throw my STBX off so he wouldnt'be able to find me!
I joined the divorce grouup and the widow/widowers group.
I guess somebody on tehboard found out and questioned who this could happen. I have written to this person several times explaining why I did what I did, but no responce!
I AM A WIDOW! I lost my husband of 18 years back in 1999. It was the hardest thing in the world for me to go through. Even though he was far from perfect...I loved him...he was a huge part of my family and we all miss him dearly!
So, I felt that even if I have to blow my cover nad deal with either leaving the boards again for good or dealign with my issues on my own...that I owed a few people an aploigy for whatever was misunderstood on their part!
So yes...to answer the question...I am a widow of a man I was with for 18 years of my life...adn yes I am going through a divorce from a man I have been married to for 7 years.
So that is me in a nutshell take it or leave it...it is YOUR CHOICE!
For those of you that choose to leave it...I can thank MY STBX for being an a**********
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
STBX soon to be x...lol
THANKS BECK...I do love ya for that one!
Not only are you very poignant, clever, tenacious, but you are just downright fun.
I guess I just do not understand why I should have to leave the Ds boards just because my soon to be ex hubby wants to play mind games with other people!
I havefound this board and the people to be hte best on the web their support has been endless!
So sorry I sounded so harsh!
xoxxoxoxox
Not true, but Oh whatever!
I am glad you all have my back...I love ya all soooooooomuch