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rubyblue
rubyblue
For my friends (for those who don't like me please don't respond negatively to this post as I am fed up with innacurate and slanderous insults today).......

due to the unfortunate fact that friends only journals have been raided and ppl are unfairly slagging me off, I have removed some of my friends. I have based this on - keeping the ones I have spoken to in the last couple of weeks. If I've deleted you, and if I have it doesn't mean I don't want to be friends, please request again. I am just trying to keep myself 'safe' and hope you appreciate this
deleted_user
deleted_user
how do people get into friends only journals?
deleted_user
deleted_user
People can "pose" as friends under a bogus user name. That's how the information in one of the posts lasts night was discovered, copied and pasted into the public forum.
My response to this was to start leaving all of my journal entries open.
deleted_user
deleted_user
yeah... its a bunch of crapola... (haha, haven't used that word in a minute). right on, though. some people are just terrible... its life, what can you do??
deleted_user
deleted_user
wow, people suck! im glad i dont much care what folkss think of me, cant be any worse than what i think of myself. ruby, i am sorry people are being mean to you. you dont deserve mean. i do appreciate you being proactive in protecting yourself. stay safe and stay sane. please leave ruby alone you mean people. shes ok. really.
deleted_user
deleted_user
anyone can read my journals if they want,lol
rubyblue
rubyblue
bumping this up for my friends that are just getting out of bed....
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've just got out of bed, *yawn*, I'm sorry tou're having all this hassle, you dont deserve it. You dont need to apologise, your friends will understand.x
deleted_user
deleted_user
Tptally concur with dizzycow. Friends are there for you whatever happens. I had a so called friend,, who when she needed me, ie. she was rushed to hosp. at 1 o'clock in the morning, I was there within 15 nins. had to borrow money for taxi. I needed her when I was depressed and suicidal, Where was she? In bed couldn't get to me, not even to phone back. I've now dropped her as best friend, but still speak, JUST. BIG BOSIES to all. XXX
rubyblue
rubyblue
Thank u xxxxx
Testycatlady
Testycatlady
I think toocool has the right idea. We should maybe be more careful who we include as friends. From know on, I will only include those who I have had contact with for a while.
Testycatlady
Testycatlady
Unless I have a gut feeling that it is OK to include them.
rubyblue
rubyblue
I think we all need to feel safe about adding friends.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I had noticed after a run in with someone that my journal was being repeated. My journal is now open, for anyone.

the problem with turning down a "friend" request for me is that I'm afraid it will hurt someone, maybe they are in need at the time.

I kept people on my friends list, some we kept in touch, others not so often. Instead of having to be "friends" just pm me, hug me, respond to me on here til everything gets better.

don't go looking for trouble, its not a good idea.
deleted_user
deleted_user
i dont even know you but your brave for being honest hope you sort it out soon good luck to you x
rubyblue
rubyblue
thanks everyone, much appreciated xx
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