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my brother- severe clinical depression

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My brother was at the hospital and was released on the basis that he follows up with treatment.
I worry about him so much. My mom is in denial that anything is wrong. He lives with her, and he just doesnt like to get doctor help. She seems to think everything is a food allergy.
My brother needs to take his medicine, get therapy, get follow up, and have a sleep study done.
I have no idea how to help him. He is so withdrawn from society, and my mom does not make it better- she actually creates an environment where he can be an invalid. That does not make him happy, and does not motivate him.
I have no idea what to do now. He is on his way back to my mom's house now. He is 23. I have seen this since he was a young boy. He has threatened to kill himself too.
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it would be good if your mum got some help too. as you know its hard for the family aswell, you are one step ahead as you already have some understanding if what hes going through. try to encourage your mum to do some research or even log on here. however be prepared she may never get it not everyone does, my mum doesnt. thinking of your bro.x
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i agree with always honey couldn't say it any better if I tried. If you need someone to lean on we're here too, its damn hard supporting someone else like that too x
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just keep lettin him know u r there for him and that he never needs to be alone. depression is a lonley and isolating. Love is a great comfort and wel done to you for caring, good luck to you
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It is so frustrating, my brother has been this way since he was 6 years old, and needless to say, he is not "close" to anyone, nor has he ever been. He is like a hermit in my mother's house. He keeps his distance, and has a really hard time completing a sentence. Depression is just one part. He has something so far gone, that he many times is mistaken for being mentally retarded or strung out on acid. He doesn't really cry (in front of anyone) nor does he really laugh (unless it is after he hurt someone).
I am afraid of his violent behavior, and his mood swings. My mom has been experimenting with his diet for years... convinced he has a food allergy. She will not admit that maybe he has a problem, and medical attention is necessary. She thinks he did not belong in the hospital.. that it was all part of his ex-girlfriend's plan somehow... that is so far-fetched! His ex is truly concerned for him, and because he has not had help, that is why she is his ex. They broke up 2 years ago. They have a child together, and she really hopes someday he can get his act together so he can be a father to his son. Right now she is very upset, and prays he gets better.
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